um.. who says your life is over? ive had HPV since i was 15/16 yrs old.
the reason you'd be closely monitored is because of the precancerous or cancerous cells.. you need to be tested every 6months to a year now.. thats what they mean by being monitored honey
ive had LEEP/CONE in 2007.
im now clear of HPV..
your life is not over. half the women in this world have it, its SOO common.