I am 29 and have been married for 3yrs with no kids, got married in Vegas and i regret it. I have been best friends with my friend for 12yrs we also work together and he met his fiancee 4rs ago and they have no children,shes 26. When i first met my friends fiancee i was mesmerized with her she is so beautiful and a beautiful personality, we both clicked straight away and you can tell there was some hidden feelings with us. She helped him through a drug addiction. My pal asked me to drop by his house and pick something up for him and his fiancee and i started talking and then something just happened and we where kissing, she pulled back and said she couldn't do it and i left, the next day i went to talk to her and ended up telling her i had strong feelings for her and she said she was always attracted to me also, we ended up having sex. I cant count the amount of times we've been together but she said that it cant go on as too many people could get hurt, the thing is i am crazy about this woman and i have been for 4years, i get jealous when i see her and my friend together, i don't even want to touch my wife anymore, this girl is all i can think about, i want her to be mine so bad. I've told her i need to be with her and she says she has strong feelings for me and that im on her mind 90% of the time. She met up with me yesterday and told me she is 3weeks pregnant with my baby and i am so excited & happy but is terrified and doesn't know what to do. He was away the week she got pregnant and the week after that. When she is around all i can do is look at her and smile, when i get her own her own i cant stop kissing her and when she gets afraid if someone is gonna see she pulls away but i pull her back to me and just kiss & look at her, in bed shes all i can think of im f*cking crazy about her. I know what i am doing is being a complete prick but im in love with her and know i am risking everything,wife & friend but she makes me so happy. I have suggested us leaving our spouses, i cant leave her alone. Any advice?
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Im sleeping & in love with my best friends fiancee! I got her pregnant, Advice?
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Posted 2 years ago #
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Get neutered.
Posted 2 years ago # -
Leave your wife. You're obviously not happy with her even if nothing comes from your relationship with this other woman.
Tell her you are prepared to be with her and raise your child together even if it risks loosing/hurting your friend. In the long run you would be doing him a favour. After all he is currently with someone who is cheating on him and he deserves better quite frankly.
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Either way someone will be hurt. But if the 2 of u (your friends girl and u) are truly in love then that is what you need to do. Be with eachother, and allow your others to find their own love after they deal with the hurt. Gives you all the chance to be happy.
Posted 2 years ago # -
before getting involved with her, both of you should have ended it with your spouses. Now she is pregnant and needs to be honest with her partner--and you have to tell your wife.
If you want to be together--then divorce your spouses--which is what you should have done from the get go.Just be careful as if she cheated on her partner, she'll cheat on you too.
Posted 2 years ago # -
Give yourself and her some time to THINK....some time to cool off physically apart.
Consult someone who can help you sort this out. - Counselor/ Minister / Lawyer
Be A MAN. Own-up to your deeds.
You need to live up to your current obligations
Live with the consequences of your commitments and legal and moral
Live with the financial consequences of your behavior - If you are the father, be a Dad for your child
Get a paternity test.
Posted 2 years ago # -
The one is easy:
falcon punch to her uterus.
BAM!Posted 2 years ago #
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