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My date doesn't want to check about STI for me?

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  1. Coffe Inn
    Member

    I know this man for 4 months, but he's my date, not a boyfriend yet. Today he told me that 3 years ago ye made love with a prostitute. He wore a condom when he did her, but when she did him a blow job, she took a condom off. He said that after that he made an STI test, but I didn't see that test, so I asked him to do it again for me. Because we were planning to make love and etc. Then we had an argument. I myself had a sex with a junkie once, but I didn't make an STI test yet. So he told me - "Your junkie had a bigger risk to transmit a sexual illness or any kind of hepatitis". I told him that I can make an STI test about it, because it's not a problem for me. But he rejected to do his and told me "You should trust me, I told you that I've done an STI once, so why should I do it again? I'm working with meat. Don't you think I could work there if I have an STI?"

    Should I believe him or should I press him to do an STI test anyway?
    That *** was a B.J.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  2. Radiotoaster
    Member

    He obviously has something to hide if he can't take the STI test. Action speaks louder than words.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  3. ♥Selena♥
    Member

    If he doesn't want to take a test then do not engage in any sexual activity with him. He may try to make you feel guilty for wanting him to take a test but do not cave in. It is YOUR body and YOUR health and you deserve the right to know.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  4. Mariah
    Member

    Tell him you won't have sex with him until you see a test. If he wants it badly enough, he'll do the other test without complaint.

    However, you will probably be safe if you use protection correctly.

    Posted 2 years ago #

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