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My girlfriend says she has a phobia with kissing...?

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  1. i dont think you've got a choice my man you're just gonna have to deal with it until she's ready. Just be affectionate to her in other ways.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  2. kornball
    Member

    You don't NEED to 'make out' to show affection you WAN'T it , quit thinking with your dick and think with the brain god or 'germs' gave you. If you don't like it and want sex then read your question the answer is in right in front of you, break up.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  3. Raoof
    Member

    try to get her to reading this question you posted here and the answers ppl wrote for u maybe she will feel different or something

    Posted 1 year ago #
  4. Ashfaque
    Member

    interesting, try to avoid from too much kissing her, it will weaken your sexual desire and will cause you bronchitis.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  5. Chef Kris
    Member

    We peck kiss all the time and we've slept together once. during which I slipped her the tongue and she started to reciprocate but then stopped. We were slightly intoxicated. I've been spending time with her and we hold hand sometimes and cuddle a bit. when she stays over we sleep in the same bed. most of the time she doesn't even want to kiss me on my mouth. What should I do??? I'm a very affectionate person and now I'm starting to wonder if she doesn't like me anymore( just wants to be friends) We've discussed this and she gets mad that I talk about it. She says that she has a phobia with germs. She doesn't drink after anyone but has occasionally drunk after me. She says she needs time, but I feel like I'm going mad being deprived of affection. what should I do?

    Posted 1 year ago #
  6. ADAM
    Member

    Germaphobia/mysophobia (fear of germs) is very real, and very devastating for people involved. Chances are, her intoxication lifted it from her briefly, but she's just going to have to get over it herself. Perhaps recommend a behavioral therapist for her to get over her phobia (say "behavioral therapist" instead of just "therapist" or "professional help" because that way it doesn't sound like you're calling her crazy).

    Posted 1 year ago #

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