Tell her
simple as that
confront the obstacle...which is her
no point of telling him..he's love blind
if she's nice then tell her because she is the only one who can bring him to his senses....look even if she gets with him when u tell her at least u know the truth and u have enough time to get over instead of letting it drag on and emotionally hurt you....
I think your husband is capable to love both of you.some people can I guess.So to me it should not be really big deal as long as he is also being nice with you and make you happy as well.If you still can't take it then may be you want to see her secretly and tell her about this.if she is matured enough to understand your situation then she will tell her husband to stay away from her or keep some distance with him.If you know what I mean.
Prepare for the storm.
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Your husband may be 30, but is he really a MAN yet?
Tell him, in no uncertain terms:
He made a commitment to YOU when you married.
If he is a MAN he will live up to his commitment.
If he is a boy, a wimp, he will go off and "play".
BUT he can't have it both ways. Once he leaves it is forever. No coming back. Ever.
I am so sorry. That is awful. I guess I just don't understand why he didn't tell you about them long before you were married, there could be other things he is hiding? And if after all of these years with you he still has feelings for her, then his feelings for her never really ended. I hope that you can figure things out. I wish I has advice for what to do. Talk to him, tell him your not wanting a divorce, allthough you probably don't want to be with him if he doesn't feel the same about you. Make him sit and talk to you, there is no need for him to tell his friends that he is going to divorce you before he even talks to you about it.
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If he really looks at her in a way that he should be looking at you, His WIFE, then Divorce him first!
You shouldnt have to deal with his shenanigans, and if she wears any attire that makes him go bonkers when he is out with YOU then tell him that its her or YOU. he can at whoever when you guys are over, and remind him that it was his obscene obsession for an Ex-girlfriend of his.
he needs to suck it up and be a good husband or you need to ditch him before he ditches you.
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