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Should I tell him he has HPV?

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  1. Aubrey
    Member

    I just recently started dating this guys, three weeks ago,. I slept with him unprotected within a week. YES not my proudest moment. And before anyone judges, this is the first time Ive done this ever and mind you Im in my mid 30s and have been going through alot of stuf the past four years, my husband of 8 years left me when I told him I was pregnant with our first child, my parents died in a car accident last year and being a single mom and not dating ANYONE for the past three years I for once wanted to live recklessly and carelessly, or in other words, stupidly. Ive have been a very responsible adult until this instance. I know HPV can stay dormorte for a while and you could possibly not know you have it. Well I've only had two partners my entire sex life, my first boyfriend from high school, and we were both virgins and my exhusband who was also a virgin when we got married. and I havent had sex with anyone since my exhusband, three years ago. So it is pretty obvious I got the HPV after having stupid sex with the giuy I am dating. I personally dont think he is that serious about me, and well he seems to be the type that has been around, if you know what I mean. So I am not sure if I should even tell him, cause he could possibly turn it on me and blame me, and with my actions with him I dont doubt he doesnt think very highly of me being that I stupidly gave it up to him so quickly. Not sure how to approach this with him or all. I have been avioding him for the past three days and he has been texting me and calling me too. Any GOOD advice would be helpful, please no judgemental posts. Thank you

    Posted 2 years ago #
  2. DrS
    Member

    who cares what he thinks or says about you if he gave it to you he is a slezball tell him an dump him you can do better

    Posted 2 years ago #

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